You watched her share her breast cancer journey on TV in real time—from shaving her head to walking into chemo with millions watching. Officially listed as one of Vogue’s Top Wedding Planners in the World, we saw her “GUERDYFY” life around her with resilience and grace as a reality TV star on Bravo’s The Real Housewives of Miami. But if you thought that was the only unforeseen event that redefined her—there’s so much more. To better understand her, she takes you back to her very layered and complicated beginnings.